For me, brains are more attractive than brawn. The man can't be a cold intellectual, though. Hirado is the best eye candy, IMO, but he's too aloof to be a romantic interest. Lord Dragon, I believe, would make a good mate for any of the three adult warrior heroines.
Hey Nancyred, don't mind my sister. She hates Hirado. Why? I don't know. It's been a running joke in the forum for about a year. She even drew "hateart" for Hirado!
If I have a ton of typos, it is because I am on my phone and I have the tiniest keypad ever! Please excuse my mistakes!